Many of us like to complain about our husband or wife. They are just human, they have feelings and they also want to feel appreciated. Think of why you want to marry him/her at the beginnig. Many times we will forget all about it. Things that you adored or deemed cute or attractive last time all turn out to be something that you don’t like after you got married.

Who says marriage is easy? You have to put efforts in it and be creative. Never give up on your partner unless of course they did bad things to you like abuse you or cheat on you.

Everyone has a dream partner in them that they use it to be the yardstick to measure his/her partner. If you want them to be your dream partner, then from time to time, you have to talk about him/her as if he/she has those qualities that you want in your dream partner.

Tell him/her how much help he/she is when you need him/her to do something for you, even if he/she is not and do emphasize that he/she had really done well or tell him/her how awesome he/she is for being able to cater for you and the kids and so on.

Once he/she hears that, he/she will swell with pride and strive to do those things or fulfill your wish even more.

It won’t hurt praising your partner, it will only hurt if you don’t appreciate them.