Arguments are unavoidable when having discussion in a relationship. There’s a way to avoid it by avoiding accusatory words.

People tend to use “You did” or “You don’t” or any accusing words when discussing things with their spouse, boyfriend or even family. These words will instantly make the other person put up their defenses or shields and turns a discussion into an argument.

Always say things like “I feel….” and then tell how the person the situation that is affecting you and making you feel. When the other person does not feel like they are being torn down or defensive, they will be more willing to listen.