It is best to listen carefully during arguments. Most of the time people forget to listen and jump into conclusion or don’t even bother. You shouldn’t be doing this! It will make things worst and your partner will feel that he/she is not being listened and they will not be willing to listen to you also next time.

You can ensure that things will be less frustrated if you make an affort to ask questions to make sure that you understand what they are really upset about. When they feel that they you are listening to them, they will be more willing to hear your opinions. They will also do the same to you and appreciate you more.